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Many parents leaving controlling or abusive relationships say the same thing. They love their children deeply, but they no longer trust themselves as parents. They second-guess decisions. They feel unsure where they once felt clear. Ordinary parenting moments can suddenly feel loaded and heavy. This is not because you have lost your parenting ability. It is because trauma often shows up in subtle ways that undermine confidence from the inside. Fear: “What if I get this wrong?

Discover why trauma recovery is essential when co-parenting with a controlling ex. Prioritise trauma recovery to support your and your child's wellbeing.

Stop over spilling at work with our guide to processing breakups safely. Learn where to channel emotions without professional consequences.

Get closure with a goodbye letter to your ex. Discover how writing can help you get closure, process emotions, and move forward with clarity

Discover how to create safe spaces to reduce trauma and soothe past experiences. Learn practical steps to make environments feel secure.

Discover how to regain control with a trigger map and response plan. Learn to identify personal triggers and create a response plan today.

Explore whether therapy may be what you need, recovering from the trauma of a difficult past relationship

Discover how relationship trauma can shape your thoughts and emotions.